If you’re like me, there may be some items hanging out in your closet that no longer fit. Why do we hang on to these clothes? What’s really going on in our heads and our hearts that keeps us from saying “adios” to something that’s no longer right for our bodies? Today, Heather tackles the tough topic of why we hang on to clothes that don’t fit and how to process, in an emotionally healthy way, breaking up with that ideal or former clothing size.
If you’re hoping your body will someday fit the clothes again or waiting to get new clothes until you’ve “earned it” through getting to a different size or shape, friend, you’re not alone. But, know that there’s a much more comfortable way to live. Wearing clothes that fit you and you feel good in is not a privilege you have to earn. You’ll be amazed at how good you feel when you have a closet with clothing options that you enjoy putting on rather than clothes that cause you shame.
Love this topic? Check out these other episodes and related posts:
- Podcast: 3 Reasons To Get Rid of Those Clothes That Don’t Fit
- Getting Rid of Clothes That Don’t Fit: Do They Hurt Body Image?
- Why Is It So Hard to Get Rid of Clothes That Don’t Fit?
- Podcast: Body Image, Comparison and Clutter at Home? An Interview with Organizer Dana White, A Slob Comes Clean
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Heather, thanks so much for your podcast! I lost over 100 pounds and kept them off for 12 years. Then COVID hit and I couldn’t keep my rules anymore. I gained half the weight back. Finding your podcast has been such a blessing. The guilt, shame and grief are slowly being replaced by the knowledge that I am seen, known and loved by God as you say in your intro. I recently got rid of a lot of clothes because I realized it would be a blessing to my husband to not have all these piles. What a feeling of relief to not have those clothes shaming me. When I see thin pictures of me I struggle with fresh grief and I still struggle with the fear that people are judging me. But your words have helped me to make real progress. I’m always happy to see an new episode in my feed. I will keep listening and trusting that God will use this hard place for his glory.
Yay, I’m so glad to hear that, Grace. I think grief is the perfect word for the process. It’s a tangible loss, then a struggle to trust that God is enough and that he can help us feel safe, even when we don’t feel safe from others’ judgement in our bodies. Praying for continued freedom and encouragement for you!!