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Confessions of a Compare-aholic

My name is Becca, and I'm a compare-aholic. It takes many forms. Somedays I try to delude myself and call it "looking for inspiration." (You know that embarassing, guilty pleasure thing where we torment ourselves by sifting through social media and comparing every...

Joy and Fear of the Holiday Season

This is by far, my favorite time of year. Brisk mornings with a hot cup of coffee in hand. Apple-cinnamon aroma that fills the entire house. Vibrant red and orange leaves falling from the trees. A crackling fireplace warming the living room. Christmas music and...

Why Can’t I Connect? Is Comparison in the Way?

As I sit here and stare at my computer screen, I find myself with the desire to meet you for coffee. Yes, you…for coffee…or tea…or whatever it is you enjoy. But, it’s not really about the drinks. It’s about the connection. In person. Face-to-face. Isn’t that the core...

Life is Worth the Weight: Body Image and Pregnancy

As little girls we spend time planning our fairy tale lives: our lavish weddings, our extravagant dream homes, the perfect husband (who will always be romantic) and the number of children we will have. What we don’t spend time planning is dealing with the stress of...

Pregnancy and Body Image: When Pregnancy Ain’t No Picnic

Today the Pregnancy and Body Image Series continues with Esther's story of the roller coaster ride her pregnancies, weight gain, and eventual PPD took her on. During pregnancy I experienced the most self-loathing I’ve ever felt in my entire life. Before pregnancy, I...

Summertime, Covet-time? Ending Summer Body Envy

Summer's here! Check out Wendy's thoughts on summer body envy in today's post, especially if you need a little humor to lighten your day! The beach is the worst place for it. Out there enjoying the sun and surf are hundreds of people in swimsuits. The ones that bother...