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Struggling with body image? Tired of comparing yourself to others? Looking for biblical truth that will help you find freedom?
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How can we help you improve your body image or stop comparing?
Whether you’re fighting the scale and mirror or stuck in a battle with an eating disorder, Compared to Who? the blog has a library of more than 500 articles to encourage and equip you to find body image and food freedom through the Gospel! Looking for more personalized help? Consider body image coaching or join one of our online course options.
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I used to believe that Genesis 29:17 was the meanest verse in the whole Bible. Leah’s eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. (ESV) How could God tell us that Rachel beamed with physical beauty while Leah lacked great eyes? Isn’t that a bit harsh? Where’s the follow up verse that…
I caught this slightly crazy but totally funny video on For Every Mom. (You’ll get the gist after the first fifteen seconds. Why is it so funny? Because it’s true . . .at least for me it was. Years ago we planted a church in our house. Yes. Our church met inside our home. Every. Sunday. Evening.…
There’s a big secret to losing weight that doesn’t have anything to do with carb to protein ratios, Crossfit workouts, or eating like a caveman. It has to do with love. For the first time, ever, I stepped on the scale on New Year’s Day and saw a number I should have been happy with. …
Have you made resolutions? Maybe you’ve started the year with a great resolve to “improve” this, that, or everything? That was me. For decades. Then God showed me that the self-improvement treadmill was taking me nowhere. And, that’s why I wrote this book, The Burden of Better–a Christian book on comparison– and here are two reasons…
As we start another new year – now is the time to stop and inventory where you’ve been and where you want to be! We’re not talking about your weight, we’re talking about your heart. Where have you made progress towards improving your body image? What areas are you starting to see glimpses of freedom?…
If you truly want to reach your “New Year, New You” goals – may I make a suggestion? Don’t start a new diet, start a new Bible reading plan. Yes, I understand that the holidays may have taken their toll on the way your jeans fit. I know that every fiber of your being may…
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Hi there, I’m Heather.
I’m a pastor’s wife, a homeschooling mom of four, a failed Netflix baker (season 1, episode 1 of Nailed It!), an author, podcaster, and speaker…but most of all…I’m just a woman who loves Jesus but knows what it feels like to struggle with body image and comparison. My passion is to see Christian women set free from the all-consuming worry over the scale, mirror, or lure of comparison so they are free to pursue God’s purpose for their lives. Learn more about Compared to Who? here.